Tips on dating a cop
Sit back once in awhile and evaluate who they are and whether or not they meet your criteria as a lifelong partner and remember it takes two years to get to know someone.
Authenticity Do you feel accepted and liked for who you are or do you get the feeling your relationship partner is giving you pointers of who you should be?
“Personally, I think they’re a bunch of lowlifes using the uniform to get laid,” said one cop, who asked his name not be revealed.
Is there anyone else who is with a police officer or has been with one who feels like they're really controlling and on like a power trip?
That includes a 29-year-old officer from Brooklyn who until yesterday had posted a photo of himself on wearing a uniform and posing next to an NYPD motorcycle, while announcing, “I like girls who have some respect for themselves.” Also deactivated yesterday: The looking-for-love profile of a 31-year-old officer from The Bronx, which included a photo of the Romeo in blue alongside the assurance, “I promise, I’m not a bad guy.” The NYPD social-media policy — which has been taught at the Police Academy for three years — is designed to prevent officers from embarrassing the department while wearing its uniform, sources said.
The cops will be judged on a case-by-case basis, and some could be fired if they’re caught courting underage partners or abusing their authority, said a law-enforcement source.
So dating expert Michelle Lewis, an author of Flirting 101 and organiser of Jewish dating group JJunction, has listed the keys to preventing your date from becoming a disaster and giving you a great chance at seeing that special person again.'It’s all about listening to what they say to you and feeding it back to them, or asking questions about it.
Mel B is either smitten or paying homage to baby daddy Eddie Murphy, because she's dating the guy he played in one of his iconic movies ... Sources in the know tell us she's been seeing a guy on the Beverly Hills PD for a few months. splitting with husband Stephen only months before she started dating the officer. She started dating him immediately and it took only a matter of weeks before he was staying at her home 5 - 6 nights a week. TMZ broke the story, Mel B has a restraining order against Belafonte, and one of her concerns is that she says he has a gun he's not allowed to possess because of a prior crime. He has also accompanied her to a number of social engagements.
We received some serious answers and some pretty humorous ones, but these pretty much sum up the mix.Being in a relationship with someone who doesn’t work a 9-to-5 schedule comes with certain challenges, especially if that person is in Law Enforcement.Sure, doctors and first responders deal with intense situations where if they make a mistake, someone might lose their life.To paraphrase Chris Rock, Take the relationship slowly; in time defenses come down and you get to see each other warts and all.
To get to know someone you need to see who they are when they think no one is looking, how they handle conflict, meet their families and friends, manage their money, as well as many other aspects of their lives.Some officers said the NYPD should be more worried about the crackdown on stop-and-frisk and the layers of oversight imposed by a federal judge and the City Council.